** I am retiring October 30, 2024 ** Are you a reformed “bad boy”? An ex-anarchist? A rehabilitated free-thinker, risk-taker, hellraiser? What the f**K happened??? Flash forward a couple of decades, and today you find yourself in control of (and responsible for) everyone and everything. Have you traded your wild and crazy lifestyle for 25-hour days, endless PowerPoint presentations, schlepping the kids to and fro, Prozac and Lipitor? You’re micromanaging each tiny aspect of your life and your work and, frankly, it’s exhausting and more than a bit boring. Not to mention your dull, routine, and possibly non-existent sex life. Is this what you signed up for? Disappointed. Unsatisfied. Stuck. Miserable. Unhappy. Bored to tears. Don’t you miss the thrills? The excitement? The erotic adventures that kept you secretly smiling for days? Of course, you do! I’m here to help. Imagine yourself … Letting go and surrendering. Giving up control. Embarking on an unforgettable erotic voyage of discovery. Giving yourself permission to explore your deepest passions in a safe, intimate, and connected way. Feeling incredible in your body ~ energized, expansive, vibrant, and whole. Leaving with a renewed sense of adventure, courage, desire, delight, mystery. Let me help you get your mojo back. Be a wild, lusty, badass once again.  ABOUT ME ** I am retiring October 30, 2024 ** As the Creatrix of Bondassage® , Elysium by Bondassage® , Bondassage For Couples , and the Art of Bondassage Online Courses , I’ve had the privilege of introducing thousands of folks worldwide to this uniquely sensual, kinky, blissfully pleasurable, and provocative form of bodywork. My passion and my life’s work is to educate, simplify, de-stigmatize, and make kinky play and erotic massage accessible to everyone, through in-person sessions, my book, and online training. Humor, compassion, intuition, and integrity are integral to my work. Born and raised in the Bay Area, just 17 minutes from San Francisco, I’ve been kinky my entire life. Ever since I can remember, I’ve had fantasies of domination, surrender, bondage, and of either giving or experiencing the most depraved acts you can imagine. My first fantasy, when I was just five years old, was based on a Three Stooges episode in which a beautiful woman was tied helpless to an evil mad scientist’s table (there was also a gorilla next to her about to break out of his cage). I was reading Victorian erotica and the Marquis de Sade at 12 and exploring naughty delights with the neighbor kids. My fascination with all forms of sexuality, sensuality, touch, pleasure, BDSM, desire, and all things “taboo” have informed my research and training, which has, ultimately, landed me here. I am passionate about human and animal rights, free speech, reproductive and sexual freedom, sex workers’ rights, and climate change. Outside of this realm, I’m a classically trained singer, voracious bibliophile, an obsessed fiber artist, a Virgo with Taurus rising, and an INFJ. I began my training as a Bodyworker in 1989. I now have over 2,000 hours of advanced training in several healing modalities ~ Amma, Swedish, Acupressure, Shiatsu, Deep Tissue, Sports Massage, Reiki, Rebirthing, Polarity, Trigger and Active Release, Thai, Tantra and Taoist Massage, Shamanic Journeying, Aromatherapy, and Esoteric Energy Healing. I am a graduate of Barbara Carrelles’ Urban Tantra for Professionals program, a Sensual Shaman, and a Third Degree Reiki Master. As an Erotic Dominant, I have decades of experience in the “darker arts” of BDSM, and I specialize in Corporal Punishment, Bondage, Sensory Deprivation, and a wide variety of body play. I am clever and creative, intelligent, intuitive, and highly practiced in the art of BDSM. I am also gifted with an incredibly wicked imagination. I believe that BDSM is a valid path to self-discovery and healing, and that submission can be a path to the Divine. I also believe that kink can be lighthearted, fun, creative, playful, connecting, mind-blowing, and easy. Come visit my beautiful healing sanctuary, just north of Monterey, filled with candles, tranquil music, and a luxuriously padded massage table fitted with soft satin sheets. I use the highest quality organic lotions and oils, and herb-scented hot packs to soothe your tight, sore muscles. My toys and tools are the finest made and impeccably maintained. Hot towels and a shower are always available. I offer education, instruction, coaching, and professional training to individuals, groups, erotic bodyworkers, and sexuality professionals, and hand-on sessions to individuals and couples. **Retiring October 30, 2024** ABOUT OUR TIME TOGETHER If you’ve ever wondered what it might be like to give your power over to another, then an in-person session may be just what you’ve been looking for. Whether you’re a novice or an experienced player, I’m honored and delighted to be your guide on a journey of exploration and pleasure. Give up control and surrender. Let your worldly cares melt away. Open your senses as I bind, tantalize, tease, and torment you. Discover your body’s deepest cravings. Unearth your hidden desires. Play with your darkest fantasies. From the lightest caress to deep, penetrating strokes, my aim is to take you deeper and farther than you have ever gone before. Life is short. You deserve to experience this. Our time together allows for an overall intense, heightened, and blissful experience. I promise that you’ll feel seen, accepted, valued, and cherished for the exceptional erotic being that you are. You will leave centered, peaceful, and filled with balanced, productive energy. Plus you’ll have some incredible lifelong memories. **Retiring October 30, 2024**